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This information is not meant to make anyone feel guilty for sending belated birthday cards or wishing someone a happy belated birthday. Instead, it is meant to shed light on the popular phrase and point out its widespread misuse.
When people fail to acknowledge a person’s birthday on the exact day, they often try to make up for it by sending a “Happy belated birthday” card or telling the recipient “Happy belated birthday.” While the intention is good, there is no such thing as a belated birthday. Therefore, all “Happy belated birthday” cards should be banned. In fact, they should never have been designed and put on the market in the first place.
According to dictionaries, the word “belated” is an adjective that describes something that is late. The word also means coming late or after the expected time. It is another way of saying something was delayed, detained, not on schedule, or not on time.
Based on these definitions, it is impossible for a birthday to be “late” or “belated.” Birthdays are always on time. Therefore, the wording on the card has the adjective in the wrong place—it describes the birthday being late rather than the greeting. Since it was not the birthday that was late, what was late?
The Greeting (Not the Birthday) Was Late
It is impossible for someone’s birthday to be late. Every birthday is always on time, even if some people don’t remember to acknowledge it on the actual date. The greeting is late—not the birthday.
The major greeting card companies such as Hallmark and American Greeting Card have gotten it all wrong. No one has caught on to the inappropriate wording after all these years and after millions of cards have been sold.
Alternative to Sending “Happy Belated Birthday” Cards
If you remember someone’s birthday after the birthday has passed, you can still send a card with the appropriate wording. Look for a card that says, “Belated Happy Birthday” instead of “Happy Belated Birthday” where the adjective is misplaced. It is not possible for someone to go back to the actual date and be happy. However, the person can go forward with your good wishes if you say it the correct way. Remember, it is the wish that is belated, not the birthday.
Your verbal greeting should have the same wording because the same explanation applies.
Food for Thought
Some people might not agree with the information in this article. That’s their right and privilege. However, there are some people who really do want to know the correct way to say things.
Yes, it is a minor thing to consider in the scheme of life’s problems, but it is true nonetheless. It seems to be something no one has thought about before. Perhaps they will think about it now.
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Martha Rogers on May 19, 2020:
So informative. loved it. Makes a lot of sense but Never in my life thought of it this way. Keep writing and informing us. Like you said it’s a personal thing but it makes lots of sense.